Kids really don’t need much. I think, as adults, we forget just how powerful the imagination can be. For example, when the weather turned bright and cool and perfect, I went out and spent a decent sized budget on some fun stuff that could be put to use in our backyard, The least expensive of these items was a box of chalk. I came home with about 10 toys and gadgets and guess what the kids spent hours using while simultaneously ignoring everything else? That’s right: the chalk. The chalk and a stick that they found on the ground….in our backyard.
If you’ve ever come home with multiple options meant to spark fun in your kid’s life, you probably have a similar story to draw from. Anyways, the point is that kids don’t need much.
I’ve learned that all I have to do it find ways to spark their imaginations and the sky’s the limit. Here are some ideas that can spark magic in your kids’ lives.
Say ‘yes’ a little more often. Yes, to 10 more minutes before bed, to listening to their favorite Disney song in the car for the 10,000th time, to walking down the park trail that looks like they will definitely get dirty and to letting them sleep in your room on those nights that they don’t want to be so far away from you.
Play with them outside. Don’t just oversee. Some of my favorite memories of childhood are when my parents or grandparents actually participated in our water balloon fight/softball game/hide & seek adventures.
Build a fort made entirely of your bed linens and dining chairs. Maybe add some string lights. Let them take a nap inside or just hang out. The memories they’ll keep will be entirely worth the clean up.
Let them wake up to something memorable and unexpected. I always love the look on my kids faces when they wake up to balloons in their room but it doesn’t even have to be that complex. Waking up to music instead of light taps on the shoulder or turning the lights on is also a good idea.
RJ and Milly are homeschooled so our morning routine is less stressful because we set our own schedule but they still have trouble waking up in high spirits. My very musically inclined kids always enjoy waking up to the sounds of music. This is a great opportunity to introduce them to the music that you love.
Invite them to cook with you. When you’re making simple dishes, let them join in. There is a sense of pride in using your hands that I think kids should start to experience early (outside of, say, being proud of their pasta art and finger paintings). I buy ingredients to make pizza and let them sauce and top their own pizza crusts!
In addition to everything I just mentioned, here are some toys that have been a real success in our house and leave a lot of room for interpretation during play time.
- Sarah’s Silks – the kids use them as capes, pull-ies, fort walls.
- Tegu Magnetic building blocks – if you have a child that loves to build and rebuild…and rebuild..they will love these.
- ‘Go Find It’ playing cards – these cards really help us to not enjoy the outdoors but to also pay attention to our surroundings in a really fun way.
- Foam swords – I love a good sword fight; especially when I know the material is soft and no one will really get hurt. 😉
Until next time!
I am always reading articles and finding great sources of inspiration to help me along in this journey of motherhood. I usually just past them along to friends and family but I thought this would be a good opportunity to pass the gems I find along to you!
One idea that I’ve really settled into after becoming a mom is: community, community, community! My plan is to post a #momcommunitymonday every (you guessed it!) Monday with articles, books, blog posts and the like that have inspired me in one way or the other.
If you’re into this kind of stuff, follow along and pass the links on to a parent who might need a little beginning-of-the-week boost!
Maisonette World is known for their amazing skills in curating the best in children’s brands. I am subscribed to their email list and was sent this amazing article on whether it’s better to have a cool kid or an unpopular one in terms of how it relates to future success. Every mom that I shared this article with enjoyed it and it sparked some really great conversations within my own inner-circle of moms.
One of my best friends wrote a blog post about being a white-passing mother (she is biracial) with a child of color and I considered it great insight.
Have you seen Oh Joy’s kids shoe collaborations with Pons and See Kai Run ? Both lines are absolutely drool worthy and perfect if you are about to redo your kiddos’ closets for Spring/Summer. Both Milly & RJ are growing out of their shoes and I am definitely eyeing some of the kicks in both lines.
While my family and I are Christian (non-denominational), we do not celebrate Easter. I grew up participating in the easter egg hunts and all of that but it was nothing that I held on to too tightly (not tightly at all, actually) when I decided to nix that tradition from my line of parenting. I do, however, love seeing all the really cool|creative|thoughtful easter baskets you amazing mamas are making out in the world and Chris loves Julia has a blog post on really cool easter basket fillers that aren’t candy. I love it.
Both my husband and I have been called Helicopter Parents; by each other, by family and friends. Ultimately, we are ok with that but a NY Times article put “Helicopter” and “Snowplow” parenting into perspective.