We are digging in our heels and it feels good. I never thought I’d enjoy (read: accept) dirt on my clothes and tiny bugs on my skin. It’s different, that’s for sure. Different has been good to us.
I’ve had lots of time to whip out my camera (and i-phone) and get some shots. The great thing is: I’m not just taking photos…I’m really taking in the scenery. I’m really living it and capturing it at the same time. That’s the plus side of slow living. There’s not rush to take the photo, rush on, and then experience view later on from a screen. I can stand in one spot for several minutes and look and smell and let my mind wander for a moment before I even reach for something to capture the moment with.
I’ve been doing that a lot lately and I’m better for it. My kids are better for it. My husband is at peace. The move has been profound for us. A new chapter in our lives together that is turning out to be better than all the rest.
Here are some of the views we’ve enjoyed recently. I hope you enjoy them too.
Country roads are so quiet and peaceful. I actually pulled over, walked out into the center of the road, fumbled to take my phone out, snapped several photos, got back into the truck and drove off before every seeing another car.
Every time I see this horse, I smile. It’s a horse and a cow….because of the spots. My husband just gave me a side eye but I know he sees it too. Don’t you?
She begged to get on his shoulders and then panicked and held him around his neck so tight until I thought that she was choking him. She immediately asked to be put back on his shoulders when he sat her down.
Over four dozen eggs in that basket; a pretty good harvest and their size wasn’t bad either.
I’m on the hunt for a swinging chair for our wrap-around porch. I bought a leather matt on a whim when we first moved to the ranch and it gets daily use. Now, I would also like a sitting option. Laying around is nice — on overcast days, it’s prefect, really — but to sit and swing would be divine.
It probably stems from my love of hammocks. We use them all the time in Puerto Rico. What’s a house in the Caribbean without a hammock?! So…..I want a swing chair. One more way to be comfortable outside which is where I am always finding myself these days.
In the city, I could spend an entire weekend inside. Air conditioning, Netflix, pizza delivery and lots of playing and yelling with the kids was a fairly typical occurrence. My days are nothing like that now. I wake up, get my coffee, put on my rain-boots and head outdoors if for nothing else than to take a few deep breaths and walk around the house a couple of times. It’s like my body craves that now. On a side note, there is nothing more freeing than walking out of your front door in your husbands boxers, a cami, and no bra. Just another perk of living on a few acres. I mean, unless your cool with your neighbor seeing you braless when he/she comes outside to let the dog out! I’ve done that a few times in the past and, for me, it’s wasn’t the most comfortable encounter! ha. Anyways…
First off, the air quality is just…..better. I have asthma; Makenzie-Alice has asthma. We are breathing better. Secondly, the scenery has this soothing effect to my nervous system. I can actually feel myself ease out of my naturally tense state. If I’m not inside the house for a specific reason, I’m back outdoors for no specific reason. WHAT?! Who is this new Ashly and where did the old Ashly go?! Just kidding..I’m not really looking for her.
Our daily adventures around the ranch are always fun and we have spent exactly zero dollars on entertainment thus far. There are so many projects that we want to tackle now that we are here: fencing for a more reliable infrastructure for our horses that continue to find ways to get out of our field, pig pins, a garden so that we can attempt to homestead. With everything that needs to get done, we plan on having the kids be as involved as possible. These are good life-skill opportunities which I plan to take full advantage of in our homeschooling journey…in our life journey, actually, because this is our life now.
Now, I have to be honest, Texas summer is a beast and I don’t enjoy the kind of heat that makes you feel like the hairs on the back of your neck are literally on fire. That kind of heat happens here and I’m not exactly looking forward to these upcoming summer months. Let’s see how it goes. Maybe we will invest in a slip-n-slide or something. Any suggestions on how you are staying cool while living outdoors in long/hot-summer areas? Let’s hear it! I’m totally open to the advice.
For now, we are soaking up these cool mornings and warm afternoons– the kids are harvesting eggs and playing with their dogs. Red and I are catching horses, loving on them and bringing their coats back to life in hopes that they will start to like being in our back yard instead of out running the acres. Fingers crossed!